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  • 0 NP006 Couples Therapy: Today and TomorrowCouples, Session 5, Michele Weiner-Davis 07.07.2011 13:37
    I struggle with this idea of forgiveness. I think what you are suggesting is that forgiveness does not mean "I am ok with what you did," but rather "I want to let go of my anger about it because it is consuming me." I would think part of that letting go is facilitated by an unfaithful spouse that acknowledges responsibility for the affair, and verbalizes an understanding of the depth of the hurt that was caused.
  • 0 NP006 Couples Therapy: Today and TomorrowNP006, Couples, Session 4, Sue Johnson 06.30.2011 17:18
    I really enjoyed this very much. I am thinking of a couple where the husband in particular tries to stay on an intellectual plane and wants to make a case for why his wife should change to meet his needs. The wife withdraws and acts like she does not care. I think EFT could really unlock this log jam of unexpressed emotion.

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