When Is Enough Enough?
We’ve all encountered couples for whom therapy is a last ditch attempt before calling it quits. But how do we, as therapists, decide whether to throw our weight behind the relationship or let it end? This session explores the impact our own values, childhood experiences, and old family roles have on how we help couples answer this momentous question. Through case histories and discussion, you’ll learn how to think about ways to proceed in the face of challenges such as when:
- One partner is ambivalent about the relationship and clearly disengaged from therapy
- Your own personal deal breakers, such as physical or psychological abuse, are part of the couple’s history
- Addiction issues cloud the viability of the relationship’s future
- The couple’s on the brink after betrayal or infidelity
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Terry Real, LICSW, is the author of the bestseller I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression and has been featured on numerous national news programs. He’s been in private practice for 30 years and is the founder of The Relational Life Institute, where he teaches therapist trainings and workshops for couples.